August 23, 2020
It is that time of the year...preparing for the return to school.
This year, I have two children heading to college. As I drove and moved Teresa into her dorm this weekend, I couldn't help but remember when she was younger. She would be so excited to start the school year, but then when the day actually came, there was always some hesitation to part ways, for both of us!
I have done this "parting of ways" now for over 20 years, you'd think it would get easier since I have done it literally every year! Yet, somehow, when I "part ways" with whichever child, at whatever age, there is always a lump that forms in my throat and my mama-heart squeezes as tears take over my vision.
We strive year after year to be good parents, to impart the best wisdom we can to help our child/ren become who they are meant to be. We spend hours on our knees, wipe noses, place band-aids and comfort with hugs and encouragement. I can reason within my head because it always knows that this is exactly what should happen...that children grow and as they grow, it is time that we, as parents, let out the 'kite string' that ties them to us, just a little bit more. I know the reality that my children will go from these cute little kiddos:
to young women and men who will make their own mark in the world:
While my head knows this, I have decided that it really does not matter the age of a child...this time of the year can just be hard on the heart. And although it is, I find comfort in knowing that we have done our part in finding a school (at which ever level that child is at) that will support their growth and formation.
When I think about the trust that I must give my children's schools, teachers and community, my heart swells with the greatest respect for all who have entrusted your precious ones into our care at SJB. We truly do love each student as though they were our own. I know that drop-off, when your child has some hesitation, can pull the heartstrings. I also know (because I get to witness it everyday) that they love their teachers and thrive when they are given the chance to "do it myself".
So...for all those of you who have or will have their heartstrings pulled within the next couple weeks...THANK YOU! Thank you for your trust. Thank you for knowing that we do everything we do with the greatest of love.
